So, here’s a personal revelation that hit me like a ton of bricks when I wrote “What Every Soul Wants”.
As I deep-dived into the principles of non-possession, I couldn’t help but turn the introspective lens onto my own life. After all, how can I preach what I don’t practice?
And then it hit me—forty years of living in this country has led to an overwhelming accumulation of *stuff*. Souvenirs from vacations, decor items that haven’t seen the light of day in years, gadgets that once seemed indispensable, and OMG, closets filled with clothes. My house has become a museum of memories and items that not only take up physical space but are also silently weighing down my soul’s journey. I can already picture my kids sifting through my possessions one day, bewildered, and probably thinking, *“What was Mom even doing with all of this?”* (Cue them tossing things into the trash with a mix of exasperation and laughter—lol).
But this realization brought me to another truth.
Yes, I own a lot of things. Like, *a lot.* Yet, strangely, I don’t feel possessive over them. For me, my possessions are just a collection of items that serve a purpose—whether it’s for special occasions, decorating, or purely because I liked the look of them at the time. I’m not emotionally attached to my stuff. In fact, I’ve been known to loan out, give away, or share whatever I have with friends and family without a second thought. It’s almost like my belongings exist to serve a purpose greater than just filling up space—they’re there to be useful, to be shared.
But here’s the kicker—whether or not I’m emotionally tied to my possessions, the sheer volume of them is *still* a problem. Because let’s face it, no one needs twelve clear vases in five different sizes (even though they seemed like a good idea at the time). I’m not using them all, and the presence of so much excess has become a constant, tangible reminder that even without emotional attachment, the act of possession itself can be a burden.
Because simply having things creates karmic ties.
And so, it’s time for a serious shift. Step one: Stop bringing in new things just for the sake of it. No more mindless Amazon orders or impulse buys. Step two: Begin the daunting task of decluttering—a true cleanse not just for my home but for my soul. Reducing what I own, making space for what truly matters, and shedding the weight of unnecessary material accumulation.
After all, what’s the point of knowing the path if we don’t walk it ourselves, right?
If you’re curious about the journey of soul purification and the joy of living a more fulfilling life, I invite you to explore my book, *What Every Soul Wants*, available on AMAZON. I’d love to hear how it resonates with you—feel free to drop a review or contact me directly to share your thoughts. Together we can continue this journey of growth and self-discovery!